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HELP FOR THOSE GRIEVING THE LOSS OF A CHILD/TEEN/ADOLESCENT BY AN EXCESSIVE USE OF FORCE BY POLICE
On Grief and Grieving: Finding the Meaning of Grief Through the Five Stages of Loss
The Worst Loss: How Families Heal from the Death of a Child
Chicken Soup for the Grieving Soul: Stories About Life, Death and Overcoming the Loss of a Loved One (Chicken Soup for the Soul)
The Grieving Garden
How to Survive the Loss of a Child: Filling the Emptiness and Rebuilding Your Life
The Grief Recovery Handbook : The Action Program for Moving Beyond Death Divorce, and Other Losses
Forever Remembered
Everyday Grace
You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought (The Life 101 Series)
Roses in December : Finding Strength Within Grief
The Bereaved Parent
Life 101: Everything We Wish We Had Learned About Life in School--But Didn't (The Life 101 Series)
Grief Therapy (Elf Self Help)
Healing After Loss: Daily Meditations For Working Through Grief

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Officer-Involved Shootings
Articles related to those who lost their loved one(s) to Police Shootings
Of Special Interest
September 09

If you read the articles, I mean really notice patterns in law behavior

It seems that if an officer makes certain statements at the time of a fatal shooting, then they are as guilt-free in the eyes of the law as they were before the death, from that point on.

Can anyone name an officer that's been convicted of an officer-involved shooting in Riverside County, Ca., ever? Seriously, I want to know.


August 20

Talking about An Invitation to Join This Group and Network W/ Other Parents Who Have Been Through The Same Thing

 

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An Invitation to Join This Group and Network W/ Other Parents Who Have Been Through The Same Thing
Please spread the word and invite others to join this site if they have lost a child to an officer's use of force. Victims range from perfectly healthy children, teens, and adolescents to mental duressed or mental impairment of teens and adolescents. Thank you!


July 30

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July 27

Police shoot to prevent eminent danger not to injure

After reading hundreds (literally) of articles on officer-involved shootings, I noticed a number of things. The one thing that stands out the most to me, is the fact that police are trained to shoot the largest mass of the body and prevent eminent danger to the officer.  In other words, they are trained to kill, not to injure.

THIS is what needs to change.  They see suspects, or threats as targets instead of people. This may be why there are so many fatal officer involved shooting civilian victims.  This may be why they run from the police, afraid for their own very lives, only to be shot in the back as they run. Or, why the police shoot someone with what the officer perceives is a weapon, when it might only be a hair brush, or a glasses case. In both of the situations, the civilian was shot, unarmed and killed.

It has to stop.  Please pass this website to all of your friends for awareness, not a chain mail sort of thing.  This is a life or death problem that needs to be addressed.  I am looking for those interested in joining me in doing just that. Thanks for reading.    Email Eric's Mom at  InMemoryofEric@msn.com.

Police shoot to prevent eminent danger not to injure

After reading hundreds (literally) of articles on officer-involved shootings, I noticed a number of things. The one thing that stands out the most to me, is the fact that police are trained to shoot the largest mass of the body and prevent eminent danger to the officer.  In other words, they are trained to kill, not to injure.

THIS is what needs to change.  They see suspects, or threats as targets instead of people. This may be why there are so many fatal officer involved shooting civilian victims.  This may be why they run from the police, afraid for their own very lives, only to be shot in the back as they run. Or, why the police shoot someone with what the officer perceives is a weapon, when it might only be a hair brush, or a glasses case. In both of the situations, the civilian was shot, unarmed and killed.

It has to stop.  Please pass this website to all of your friends for awareness, not a chain mail sort of thing.  This is a life or death problem that needs to be addressed.  I am looking for those interested in joining me in doing just that. Thanks for reading.    Email Eric's Mom at  InMemoryofEric@msn.com.
April 22

Message to all who join - My Story

On February 28th, 2006 my son was barely 18, in high school, and going through a break-up with his girlfriend of over 3 years. In a nutshell of an explanation, I called 911 to ask that they please hurry to go over to where he was to help him. He was hurting himself. Thirteen minutes after the beginning of my 911 call, my son was shot twice in the torso and died two hours later at the hospital. I asked for help, and they killed my boy. I may never know why they shot him when I asked them to help him.  Eric's Mom Broken heart

An Invitation to Join This Group and Network W/ Other Parents Who Have Been Through The Same Thing

Please spread the word and invite others to join this site if they have lost a child to an officer's use of force. Victims range from perfectly healthy children, teens, and adolescents to mental duressed or mental impairment of teens and adolescents. Thank you!

 
This site is for the Support and Networking of Parents / Family / Friends of those teens & Adolescents who lost their lives in an Officer-Involved Shooting / Use of Force
Please share any insight for others that you think may truly help. (ie. referrals, law insight, etc...) Also, we must follow the code of conduct and be as clear as we can without attacking anyone online.
Thank you!





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Apr. 27
Our goal is to provide information on how "the system" works in our unique situations. It is also about supporting each other and networking further to find more people in this awful situation. We can learn and grow, in spite of our heart-breaking losses.

Eric's Mom
Apr. 23
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